Coming up with tarot love questions can be difficult, especially when you are a newbie to reading the cards. Below, you’ll find a list of questions you should ask tarot about your love life. Before you do a reading, make sure to center yourself, by trying a mindfulness exercise. If you are new to the cards, here’s a post on how to do a reading. And here are my best tarot tips. Okay, ready? Let’s get started.
Tarot Love Questions
These are some tarot love questions to ask when you are single at the moment and the focus is more on your needs and wants than on a specific relationship.
How can I attract love into my life?
People will often ask “when” instead of how. The tarot doesn’t do a great job predicting when an event will happen. This question will give you some insight on some steps to take.
Am I ready for a relationship right now?
Maybe you aren’t sure if this is the time to try it again. This can be especially true if you’ve just gone through a painful breakup.
What patterns have occurred in my previous relationships?
Sometimes we repeat the same patterns over and over. Take a step back from your relationships and see if there have been any common themes. What can you learn from these, before you move forward? This will give you a great chance at a successful, long-term partnership.
Why did my last relationship fall apart?
This is a good one if you are still seeking answers and some closure. Especially if the romance ended on a bad note.
What wounds or shadows do I need to deal with before pursuing a relationship?
Maybe you’ve got some serious walls up like the Queen of Swords. And you need to let other people in. Maybe you are fighting some inner demons, as indicated by The Moon. And you could benefit from shadow work.
What are my fears about relationships in general?
Sometimes we aren’t quite ready for a fresh start and this can illuminate some of the emotions you’ve been experiencing.
How can I heal my broken heart?
Ouch. If you are a having a Three of Swords moment, this question can help you heal.
What kind of lover would suit me best? What kind of characteristics should I be looking for?
You might be surprised by some of these answers. Sometimes we fixate on a certain type and we are missing out on great partners because they don’t conform to a specific role.
What do I currently believe and feel about love?
Again, the answers might surprise you on this one. You might even have some limiting beliefs.
Why do I keep attracting a specific type of lover?
This question could be tweaked for several different questions. Maybe your lovers have been emotionally unavailable, or you’ve dealt with lovers who were already married and looking to play around on their spouses. Or maybe you are attracting partners who are needy.
Relationship Questions for Tarot
Here are some questions you can ask tarot if you have a romantic partner, or prospect in mind.
How does NAME feel and think about me?
This can be very useful if you have a prospect in mind, but you aren’t sure if he or she views you in the same light.
What will happen if I pursue a relationship with NAME?
This will give you an idea of what the relationship might be like.
Where is my relationship with NAME going?
Do you want to know what the possibilities are with a certain partner? This is an excellent question to ask. Sometimes it can be difficult to see where our path leads.
What would improve my relationship?
Maybe your partnership is almost perfect and needs to be tweaked. This question will give you some guidelines.
How can I be a better partner to NAME?
You can also ask the reverse of this if you’d like some insight on how to strengthen your relationship.
What don’t I know about my relationship? Are there any blindspots?
This is helpful if you feel that you are missing something you can’t quite put your finger on.
What steps can I take to get my ex back?
First, make sure you actually want your ex back. Sometimes people seem shiny and new, after we’ve been away from them for a while. This will give you some insight.
Is my ex trying to get back with me?
Maybe you’ve had some strange interactions with an ex partner and he or she is blowing up your phone. This will give you a hint as to what’s going on.
If I take NAME back, how will the situation play out?
This is a good question if you think your ex partner wants you back, but you aren’t certain if this person has changed. Will you end up in the same place again?
Is NAME being unfaithful to me?
This is a difficult question and I’m sorry if you are going through this ordeal. This will give you some idea of what is going on. Here’s some tarot cards associated with infidelity.
I hope you got some ideas for your next love or relationship tarot reading. Make sure to grab my tarot cheat sheet. You can also check out deeper meanings for the Major Arcana and the Minor Arcana. And, if you didn’t get the answers you were looking for, you can order a love tarot reading from me. I would be happy to offer you some insight.
Try some of these love and relationship spreads