Think of Me Spell

So, I’ve been thinking about my ex a lot. A. Lot. I just went through a breakup and I’m feeling all nostalgic. However, we didn’t really end on the best terms. I didn’t know if contacting him would be a good idea or not. Sure, I could suck it up and give him a call, but who likes rejection? Besides, if he is done with me, I don’t want to stir up any trouble. So, magic to the rescue. This Think of Me ritual is a simple sort of love spell, although it is going to take some time and effort.

What is this mojo?

Well, this ritual pulls at someone’s thoughts, but doesn’t necessarily bump up against free will. If he or she has no thoughts of you, this spell won’t tug at their memories, and draw him or her to you. This is best suited to a former lover or a potential one. Make sure he or she is not involved in a relationship before you cast this spell. Why? Karma, baby. If you become the other woman or man in this scenario, expect badness. You don’t want to interfere in someone else’s relationship, because the universe might decide to punish you in the very same way. After I did a little Facebook stalking to determine his status, voila! No bad karma. He was single and I was ready to go.

What You’ll Need

A small mirror (similar)

A candle of your choice

A piece of paper (I used a sticky note)

Lipstick/lip gloss/chapstick.  I chose one with a red tint, because red is associated with love. (similar)


The Spell

Gather your spell ingredients, ground yourself by practicing a little mindfulness, light a candle, cast a circle, and then begin. I cast this spell at my altar, but you don’t necessarily need to have one. Just place a candle, the mirror, and the lip gloss in the same location.

While you are thinking of this person, write his or her name on the slip of paper. You can also use a photograph or another representation of him or her (provided it fits in the mirror).  Put on the lip gloss or lip balm, and kiss the mirror. Close the mirror up with the paper tucked inside.

And then speak your thoughts: Think of me, NAME. Remember when we BLANK. You don’t necessarily have to say these exact words. Adapt this to your relationship with the person. If you haven’t done that many things together (potential love interest) talk about things you’d like to do. When you are finished, close the circle and keep the mirror, candle, and lip gloss together.


I did this spell during the waxing moon, so that his thoughts of me would multiply and he would think of me more and more often. You don’t have to time your spells to the moon, but it can give you an edge. The full moon would be another great time for this spell, simply because your power is amplified.

Personal touches

I added a necklace he had given me to the altar.  I also placed a rose quartz on the table, because it attracts love. If you have any love tokens, red or pink items (colors associated with love), place them on the altar. Also, if you kept ticket stubs or other items from dates, this is the place to put them.

Daily Renewal

Every morning, I light a candle on the altar and talk to Artemis.  But then I  take a few minutes to renew my spell.   I put on the lip gloss and put the necklace he gave me on, as an added boost to the spell and I wear it all day. And then I talk to him, as if he were here beside me, discussing memories. You can say whatever is on your heart, whatever is meaningful to you.

So far, I haven’t heard back from him, although this spell has worked for me in the past. I’m going to give it to the end of the month and then I’ll quit.  It might just be a lost cause. Have you ever cast a spell like this? Or are you going to try it? Tell me in the comments.